I had lost control of my life. I had to just stop. Reavulate. Make myself take time to think, without paniking, or sinking into a low place. Burying my head in the sand is what I do best. I couldnt afford to now.
I thought about what Id like to be doing in 10 years time. If I was living the dream.
I wrote it all down. It was daunting,
I needed an acheivable target.
So I thought about what Id need to change to get there, step by step.
Then, I kinda figured what I need to be doing in 5 years from now to be half way to reaching my 10 year target. I decided on a 5 point, 5 year plan...simple! Less daunting. Acheivable maybe!
1/ My daughter would have 2 parents love her.
2/ I would own my own home.
3/ I would have a career that held oportunities.
4/ I would be living on my own terms.
5/ I would feel safe.
All I had to do now was work out how to reach those targets in 5 years. It wasnt easy.
I will carry on with this later...part 3...how I got there!
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We've been friends for how long???? And I never knew any of this. I've got something for you to add to your plan babydoll. TALK to the people who really love you about the things that are important to YOU, not THEM!
xoxoxo
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